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I Am Currently Reading Atomic Habits And It Becoming Treasurer For Because It Was So Great...!! :)💙✨

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Thank You very much ❤️ You always doing great inspiring texts and videos! 💯🎆

In recent years i noticed that i feel that insecurity, inferiority complex, and also some friends noticed that i have social anxiety syndrom also, that all make me feel like failure in life... But well i still here in Beautiful Earth 🌍 And i don't want to surrender trying to become better version of myself, better person 🙂 Lazyness and procrastination is another big problem in my life and recently it trying to take me down... But i keep fighting and will fighting as long as God let me to live here 🙂

Thank You so much, Dear Ruri 🙏❤️ You and Kotaro Hisada inspired me start learning japanese 🇯🇵 With Yours help i also find very nice Busuu app for learning にほんご🇯🇵☺️ That is really great app 😃 Also i wish to learn Ελληνικά and Español 🇬🇷🇪🇦 Becouse that is my 3 favorite languages in the world that i love to hear! ☺️ Žinoma, tik po lietuvių kalbos 😂🇱🇹

You're Awesome lovely really favorite girl 🥰😄ありがとうございます。🙏Wish Best Luck and long healthy succesful lifetime for You 😊🙏

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Oh, and since you wrote it - “Feel free to reply or drop a comment”, wasn’t sure you would see it on YouTube or Instagram, I’ll write what always wanted to - you are SO GORGEOUS, just pleasure for eyes! Since I’m your fan and younger than you, writing it is a bit more embarrassing, than if I would write ot to other ones.

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By the way, why “time to say goodbye”? Did I miss something? Is this the last post or something?

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Hello Ruri, first of all, thanks for your creations, I didn’t watch everything, but some videos really helped me psychologically. Secondly, as a fan of yours, I'm happy to share my thoughts on your challenge and the questions you've asked us.

As for the feeling of insecurity, for me it has never been something shameful or a weakness in character. And from about the age of 18-19, when I began to feel total insecurity, this insecurity serves for me, as you emphasized as an benefit, one of the main motivators. However, the motivator is not for some kind of success and self-development, but for the maximum possible security. I also note that before, before this post of yours, I did not give an emotional coloring to a feeling of insecurity. For me, it has always been like a feeling of hunger, which I immediately tried to satisfy when it appeared. That is, the feeling of hunger, only now I’m thinking, by the way, was an unpleasant feeling, but I didn’t reflect on it either.

As for the inferiority complex, I didn’t quite understand, that is, you wrote that understanding the difference between a feeling of insecurity and an inferiority complex is the key, as if it really reveals a lot, because at first glance the difference is obvious, and the intersection points are not visible at all. But I suppose since you wrote this way, it is so, and one post is simply not enough to state the deep idea of ​​the author.

As for happiness, I asked myself if I was happy, and I could not answer even once because I could not and still cannot understand what happiness means in general. So happiness was not remembered in the context of self-development for me.

As for my journey of personal growth, it started relatively recently, and the main motivator for now(later probably will changed), I think, is the feeling of being lost, or the desire to find a meaning in life.

First of all, I wish you mental and physical health! Good luck in the future! As your fan, I will be glad to see new videos or posts.

[If the form of construction of sentences and / or choice of words seems strange to you, it is probably because I used an interpreter. I don't know English well enough to at least write all this without an interpreter.]

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Hi dear, I was missing you and the YouTube videos! Please come back ✨

About this week's newsletter, I was thinking a lot about insecurity these days.

The ability to aggregate multiple strategic resources and efforts in an organized approach, with consistence, is in my personal view what creates success. The contrary is also true, our inability to do so creates the gap between the reality we live and what we envision for our lives.

Sometimes we want something so much that we are not able to focus properly on what is in front of us, and we forget to climb the stairs step by step by only looking towards the end goals. I feel that I was highly influenced by that for many years of my life, for this was my behavior for so long.

I thought for much time that the reason why I didn't achieve my goals or wasn't successful was because of this lack of skill and aptitude, when somehow consistency, organization and productivity were the reason behind.

However this created and occasionally creates insecurity. I think that I must cross this bridge in order to get to the envisioned heights.

I think that I should allow myself to be more vulnerable sometimes but I struggle with that. It is not only about social pressure for financial and social growth in life, it is also about the excessive pressure I also put on my shoulders.

Wouldn't hurt to try allowing myself to be more vulnerable.

Thanks ✨💙, sending positive energy Ruri🙏

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WOW, that's a new perspective I haven't given too much thought until now.

Insecurity was always something for me to be ashamed of, but it is actually just a sign that I can grow even further.

We usually become insecure when we fear mistakes.

However, a new perspective I have been adopting is that I am okay with making mistakes, but I am not scared anymore to be seen while doing it. This brings me the courage to be disliked.

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Hi Ruri I am studying English and Spanish I'd like to get tips and tricks to improve

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